Avoidence

Avoidance is not a good tactic for getting around confrontation, it just builds more tension, and you look like an ass while your doing it.

It gets better (from what I heard)

I heard it gets better. The pain will go away, and you won't care anymore.

You became stronger for it

Even if you do not succeed, you gained knowledge, strength, wisdom for just taking the journey.

Dont strike them down, Lift them up.

If somebody loves you, in a way you could never love them back, and they are important to you, do not avoid them, do not run away, Speak to them, tell them they are important to you, give them a hug, and tell them that you will always be their friend. Providing closure is necessary to maintain the same level of friendship, and you might even gain a deeper friendship, or what I would call, a Kinship.

How far can we plan?

At what point is it not a plan, and it becomes a theory? Five minutes, a month, several years?

My blog isn't defunct

My blog isn't defunct, i just have nothing worthy of posting.

Enjoyment without the additions of substance

If you always take drugs when you go listen to your music, maybe its not the music you are enjoying. Next time you go, try it sober. See if you still like it with the intensity that you had before.

A neglected friend

Obviously a friend commands a bit more attention that a random passerby or an acquaintance. To avoid your friend, or too not give them much attention, is to treat them as a stranger, and that can destroy a friendship.

Give it all away (or don't)

How much selflessness is too selfless?

Relevance and perspective.

Changing your perspective can help things, but it doesn't always just happen over night, it happens over weeks, or even months.